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Law of Attraction
Article: How to STOP Being a Person Nothing Works For
Bob Doyle
Do you ever wonder
why great things happen to some people but not to you?
Do you ever read about people who have tried this or that product and
had some incredible result, but when you try it, you don't get the same
result?
Have you become a person who NOTHING seems to work for?
Maybe you've thought about trying the some new self- improvement package
that sounds great, but you're just so tired of things not working for
you.
Let's take a look at how you've gotten where you are and why these
things might happen.
First, at some point, you tried something - either based on a
recommendation, a testimonial you read, or some other reason. Basically,
you tried it based on someone else's positive experience.
However, when you tried it, you did not get the same result so you made
the assumption that it didn't work for you. But how true IS this? Often
- VERY often - things work differently for different people, and it's a
mistake to judge your life by comparing it with others. Perhaps you just
needed more time.
Maybe your circumstances are completely different! Regardless, however,
you made up - you CREATED a Truth for yourself at that time, that truth
being "This didn't work", although remember, that truth is based only on
your surface comparison with someone else... and it really doesn't have
anything to do with you, and what - in the cosmic scheme of things - is
best for you.
Those results you read about for that other person are what was right at
that time for them, and that doesn't necessarily mean that NOW is the
time for you and that it will happen to you the same way that it
happened for them!
From then on, every thing else you try is then compared to that first
experience, with the Truth in your mind being "Well, it didn't work that
time...let's see if THIS works". So again you're comparing... and not
really trying anything "purely" and on it's own merit without
preconceived notions or judgments.
You are already working against yourself! You may not yet automatically
expect failure, but you have it as an option, and perhaps even a
probability based on your previous experiences.
The more things you try with this mindset, the more you fortify this
mindset - it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that "Nothing works for
me". Before you know it, that is who you become. The person you are
about reaching your specific goals or trying this or that product or
technology is "It works for others but never for me." Once you reach
that place, it will most certainly become true for you.
So what do you do? How do you break out of this pattern? First,
acknowledge how you got here... by comparing yourself or your results
with other people who are really on a completely different path then
you, although they may have been after similar results. Then create a
new idea for yourself - give yourself permission to experience success
on your own terms, without judging what happens based on other people or
expectations set up by anyone other than yourself.
Once you believe that you deserve to succeed and that you CAN succeed
and that you WILL succeed, your life will change. Whatever you try will
work for you, because YOU define what "working" is - not somebody else!
You set your own timetable, you are relaxed, and non-judgmental. Your
infinite patience and lack of expectation based externally, will work
with you in very powerful ways and you will regain control over your
destiny.
Bob Doyle is
the CEO and founder of
Boundless Living and the developer of the
Wealth Beyond Reason program, which provides a
continuing education of the physics of wealth, abundance, and joyous
living through the Law of Attraction.
RadicalWealthFromHome.com
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