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How to Become
Proactive and Master Success
Deanna Mascle
We all want to
succeed in life. We want to succeed in our personal relationships. We
want to succeed in our professional lives. Yet despite this desire to
succeed we so often do not find success. Just what is the secret to
success in our personal and professional lives? Being proactive.
It is easy to place the blame for our failure to succeed on the many
factors that influence our lives. Perhaps we were born with certain
disadvantages or at least with no noticeable advantages. Perhaps our
early years are at fault. Perhaps today it is our family, our employer,
our community, or the current economic climate that is causing us to
fail. While trying to displace the blame is certainly a very human
reaction it is only a reaction. Assigning blame for our failures, even
if we accept the blame for ourselves, will not do one thing to change
our failure. However if we move past the blame game and start to think
proactively -- better yet become proactive -- then we will be on the
path to success.
The blame game is very limiting. Not only does it set you up to
repeatedly fail, it does nothing to encourage growth. However once you
move past blame and begin to think about what you can do and what you
can change. Once you begin to take advantage of your inherently human
abilities and strengths you are bound to find success. Human beings have
imagination and independent will. This means we can analyze a problem,
come up with a creative solution, and implement the plan. We have the
power to change ourselves and our lives. This is the true path to
success.
Many people are familiar with the term -- proactive -- however they
simply believe it means to take action on our own initiative. While this
is certainly a key component of the word. Becoming a proactive person is
more than simply taking action. It goes deeper than that. Being
proactive means that you not only take action but you also take
responsibility for yourself. This means giving up the blame game for
good.
In order to ensure your success you must accept your personal
responsibility for your own failure and success. Do not blame others,
conditions, or the past, but rather choose to respond to failure or
success in a positive way.
Remember that failure does not have to be the end of the road but can
rather be the beginning of a whole new path. If you can accept the blame
for your mistakes and learn from them then take those lessons to forge a
new plan of action then you are bound to find success.
You are a resourceful and imaginative person. These qualities are among
your inheritance as a human being. If you use the qualities to take
responsibility for your actions and generate new initiatives then you
are bound to find more success in your personal and professional lives.
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Deanna
Mascle publishes two inspirational ezines plus several inspirational
blogs. Find more articles about the
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